The Grass Is Always Greener?

What is it about human nature that makes us always search for more? To look for something better? To improve on what we already have? We could finally achieve everything we've ever wanted only to become restless and unsatisfied, again seeking out new heights on which to reach, about-face, and reflect on. Supposedly wise people say this is because humans must have a reason to live, and be actively working toward the fulfillment of that reason, in order for them to be satisfied with their lives. That people must reach the "flow state", where one's current abilities are challenged just to the right degree to promote growth without overwhelming their abilities to the point of frustration. At this point, learning is enjoyable and efficient, and can continue indefinitely. Others will remind us to also remember to focus on gratitude and that there are many things in our lives to be grateful for, instead of always looking toward the horizon where everything we've ever wanted resides. This can result in missing out on the good things that are currently present in our lives, right now. They also say that you can not harbor negative thoughts or be unsatisfied and practice gratitude at the same time. Another suggests it is best that we focus on the positive emotions behind the actions we are performing. He says that people should focus on those things that make them feel good about themselves and what they're doing, and should choose goals that will manifests these positive emotions in their lives. After all, if it's not adding more enjoyment to life then why are we spending our time doing it?

I feel that the drive for something better is a trait that is a core component of who we are as people, and is one that must be acknowledge and taken care of so that we can use it as a force that adds positivity to our lives. If we do not do this it can become a desire, that if remained unfulfilled, can foster a feeling of dissatisfaction that will become amplified over time.

May you remember the greener grass you have already reached while looking to the horizon toward your ultimate goals.